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Compassion Part 1
by Rinatta PariesBefore we can feel compassion for anyone else, we must learn to feel compassion for ourselves.~Unknown Webster's Dictionary defines compassion as the sympathetic consciousness of other's distress. But the first step toward having compassion for others is having compassion for yourself. It is the first step toward creating thriving relationships. It is the first step toward moving forward and growing your life. This is because we can never truly give to another if we are...
Breaking Your Relationship Pattern Part 1
by: Rinatta Paries
When you were little, you looked up to your parents. You imitated their mannerisms, words, and actions as you learned about life by watching them. This applies to relationships as well - you leaned about relationships by watching them.
Not all you learned about relationships came from your parents; your learning has continued throughout your life. But what you saw your parents do in relationships, how you interpreted what you saw, and how you felt about it, is the...
Easy Resolutions
by Rinatta PariesNew Year's Eve is the traditional time to make resolutions for the upcoming year. Most resolutions are about something we really, really want. Even if you are not the type who makes New Year's resolutions, notice that somewhere, quietly, in the back of your mind, you are probably making one anyway.The problem with resolutions, though, is that most people never keep theirs. And it's no surprise why. Most of us resolve for big things -- lose weight, get into a relationship,...
Overreaction
by Rinatta PariesHas the following ever happened to you? You are discussing an issue with your partner when the discussion suddenly turns into a heated argument. Neither person knows what happened or how to make it better. A battle ensues and lots of feelings are hurt.This is overreaction in progress.If this sounds familiar, it's because most of us have been in this situation. Want to know how to deal with these types of situations and understand why they happen? Welcome toOverreaction...
Don t Look for Your Soul Mate
by Rinatta PariesIf you look for a soul mate, you are likely to find a relationship that leaves you bewildered and alone soon after it begins. Instead, look for a partner and a best friend to whom you are attracted.I hear it over and over again; We were so compatible...we fell in love at first sight...we committed to each other right way...we had so much in common
it is as if we have known each other all of our lives...etc. Yet the relationship fell apart, my soul mate's behavior radically...
Breaking Your Relationship Pattern Part 2
by: Rinatta Paries
The first step toward being able to attract and create your ideal relationship is to clear the way for it by eliminating baggage from your past. This baggage refers to any resentments, hurts, or fears you have toward anyone who either was a role model or who participated directly in a relationship with you.
Lots of people carry such baggage for a long time, some even for a lifetime. The sooner you can truly let go of this baggage, the less likely you are to recreate...
Ten Ways to Evolve Part 1
by Rinatta PariesOver the past decade, I've worked with thousands of individuals seeking ways to improve their ability to attract their ideal mate. As a result, I've created a list of ten most commonly prescribed personal development steps I recommend for those wanting to attract and create their ideal relationship. I'll share the first five steps with you today. Read next week's newsletter for the next five steps.1. Get complete with your past to break relationship patterns.When you no...
Breaking Your Relationship Pattern Part 3
by: Rinatta Paries
Do you want to put to rest the people and situations from your past so they do not interfere with your current and future relationships?
I bet you said yes. Who doesn't have something in their past they want to put to rest? Then let's talk about what action steps you can take to create the absence of past -- or completion -- in your life.
Below are a series of action steps. You'll want to pick a few and repeat them until you are complete with various people and...
Ten Ways to Evolve Part 2
by Rinatta PariesOver the past decade, I've worked with thousands of individuals seeking ways to improve their ability to attract their ideal mate. As a result, I've created a list of ten most commonly prescribed personal development steps I recommend for those wanting to attract and create their ideal relationship. Last week I shared the first half of the list. Today, we will round out the list with the last five personal development steps.Fortunately or unfortunately, the second half of...
Clarifying Who You Are Seeking
by Rinatta PariesPeople usually get what they want in one of two ways. Some people have vivid clarity about their desired outcome and it seems to magically materialize. Surely you know someone like this, or perhaps you are even one of these people. To learn more about how to attract an ideal mate in this way, read The Power of Unwavering Belief(http://www.whatittakes.com/Archive/Newsletter1to9/newsletter__7.shtml).Other people cannot create what they want as easily. They must first get clear...
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