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A very common mistake people make is to try sneaky, childish things to get their ex back, like trying to make their ex jealous. Childish acts will only result in you losing your dignity and respect for yourself so do yourself a favour and forget about these silly games. The first thing you should do in your strategy to get back with an ex is to give them some space. Coming off desperate will only drive your ex further away. You will also be sending them a clear signal that you will be waiting for them to do whatever they want to do. Your ex will have the opportunity to find out if they want the break up to be permanent.. Wtih your ex knowing you are waiting in the background they will be able to go out on a date knowing that if it doesn't work out you are still waiting for them. Don't take it as them being mean. Everyone wants to be needed whether they know are conscious of it or not. Make contact with your ex after a little while, let them know you still care and ask if they are amenable to a reconciliation, at this point they can only say either yes or no. Walk away if they say no. Don't do anything stupid out of anger or frustration. They can always change their mind later but they probably won't if you go off acting like an idiot. Don't get all excited and desperate if they say they would like to meet. Stay calm and composed. The last thing you want to do at this point it to get mad and start fighting. This will only convince your ex that they were right in breaking up with you and will walk away forever. These are good general rules to follow but keep in mind that every relationship is different but you aren't going to get back together by forcing the issue.
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