Physical contact is an absolutely essential element of seduction. You can't successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility - I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: She flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and draw her a little closer - whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to realize your final goal of actual seduction. And that is where the problem for many men lies: How can a man get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl's not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical intimacy without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just "go for it" and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even somewhat violated because of their rushed attempt at physical intimacy. Other men decide they don't want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact - doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the man is either not interested in the girl, or that he's simply too shy to show it, neither of which are desirable scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so what's the solution to this complex problem?
Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the private boundaries of most girls (and therefore don't appear uncalled for or rushed) but at the same time unmistakably indicate that you're a confident guy who's not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact. So, let's take a look.
1. Alot of guys are afraid that touching a woman when they first meet is wrong. But that's simply not correct. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently stroke the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something. The outside of a woman's arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place, but at the same time it's a clear-cut sign that you're a personable, socially adept kind of gentleman. Don't be scared to give it a try - you'll notice the benefits at once.
2. Once you've started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, it's imperative to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps retain the bond and connection you've already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called "Stealth Tactility" to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way. For instance, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn't know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swivelling both of your bodies around until you face in the right direction, then point beyond other folks or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.
3. Finally, always try to use a "contact close" when you conclude your conversation with a girl. For example, after swapping information or arranging to meet up again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss. Many men think that the hard work has been finished once something has been arranged for a later date, but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a terrific way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.
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