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•I Am So Sick of Being Rejected by Men Women How Do I Deal With That
? Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
Every time you ask for something you really want, you are not only taking a chance for yourself, you are giving other people the chance to say yes or no to you. Some people don't like to be pressured into this choice as they are afraid to say no, so they give you their answer indirectly. Either way, we associate the no response with rejection and attach it to the idea that we are not good enough. Learn how you can change this approach.
Why does it bother...
•The lure of emotionally unavailable
Have you ever found yourself stuck in a situation where you desperately want to be in a relationship with someone who isn't quite there for you? This person is willing to be your friend and share the deepest secrets of their heart with you wouldn't go on a date with you. Or they will sleep with you and even have dinner with you every now and then but wouldn't consider the two of you together as a couple. You could really enjoy each other's company, the chemistry between you is amazing, and...
•Staying personally empowered is the key to transforming your dating experience
Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
Let me clarify exactly what I mean about staying in your power. I am talking about the program I'm developing which is called 7 Steps to Personal Empowerment. Steps 1 and 2, which mainly prepare you to go out there: in step one you're learning about yourself and what you want in your life and relationship and step 2 is about developing a belief that you CAN have what you want. Steps 3 through 6 are about going out there after your dream. The way that...
•How to Attract a Committed Partner for Your Ideal Relationship
Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
Too many of us have experienced being attracted to emotionally unavailable. We know how painful and frustrating it is to try to convince someone to commit to us whose heart isn't fully there. Yet, we see other amazing couples out there who form true partnerships we could only dream of. Why does it happen to them but not to us? What is it that they are doing? What does she have that I don't? What is wrong with me that I cannot attract someone who...
•Do You Think Your Dating Standards Are Too High
? Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
When I talk to other singles, I often hear them say I am single because I am too picky or my standards are too high. And when I ask them to tell me more about it, I find nothing unusually high about their standards. My suspicion tells me that there truly is nothing wrong with their standards. The real problem is their inner critic or the voice in their head that judges their own standards.
Whether you are aware of it or not, this self-talk is happening...
•Do you have resistance to dating
? Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
You are single and looking, you know you want to be in a committed relationship, yet the idea of dating makes you want to crawl under your blankets and come up with thousands of excuses why you're not ready to see anybody right now. Sounds familiar? The truth is, every relationship has to start with dating and you know it. But you still don't want to do it. Learn how you can overcome this fear and put yourself out there no matter what.
I often hear...
•I Do Not Have Time for Relationship or Dating
Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
When I talk to singles these days, I hear a lot of them giving me the same excuse over and over again: I don't have time for relationship or dating. That's right, you heard me, it is an excuse. It is based on a lie that you have chosen to believe for some reason. It is easy to say because it keeps you protected from the pain and discomfort of going out on dates, having to set your boundaries or feeling the disappointment of rejection. It is so easy to just...
•Why do you believe all the good ones are taken
? Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
It is shocking how many singles use the statement All the good ones are taken and how many of them really believe it to be true. No wonder, if your friends confirm it to you and you go out there only to see it for yourself it becomes hard not to believe it. Yet, people keep meeting someone special and getting into loving committed relationships every day. You may wonder what their secret is, I tell you what. They probably have a different belief, the one...
•Define your dating purpose
Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
We all know that the reason why we date is ultimately to find a relationship. For some people dating is enjoyable, others perceive it as an equivalent to torture. People who enjoy dating a lot have a tendency to stay single and date longer and have harder time settling down. While those who say they hate dating ironically dislike it for this very reason - they have hard time finding the right person to be in a relationship with. So the question is: how...
•Are You Ready For Your Ideal Relationship
? Copyright (c) 2010 Katherine Bouglai
What does it take to be ready for a new relationship? Some people have a tendency to jump into a new relationship too soon wondering why it doesn't work out for them in the end. While others let the fear of intimacy take over and keep themselves single saying they are not ready. This article will outline three major points of what it takes to be ready and hopefully give you an idea of where you stand.
This is a good question, what does it take to be...
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