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Should you just sit down and hope that someone to come to you, take your hand, ask you to be his/her friend? I dont think so. Youve got to make the move. How to? 1.Look into Yourself Decide first what kind of persons youd prefer to be your friends. Do you want to make friends with those who have the same hobbies and interests with you, or the same gender, or the same age? Or, do you wish to be friends with those who have totally different passions so you can find something else more interesting in life. 2.Dont be shy! It might not be easy for some people, I know. But, if you keep being a shy person, you wouldnt make friend easily. As I said earlier, make the move. Strengthen yourself, get rid of any timidity from your heart and approach someone whom you think you have a certain compatibility with. 3.Put that smile on your face Not a smirk but a sincere and nice smile. People would like those who smile a lot more than whose face is lifeless. 4.Be yourself Dont fake anything. If you do, you wont find it interesting to continue the relationship for you must feel tired of being someone else, not the real you. 5.Dont be afraid to fail Dont expect to get a very good friend at your first attempt. Be ready to fail. Friendship also needs chemistry. There is always a possibility that you dont have any chemistry with the person that you earlier approached. Or, that person doesnt have it with you. Some people are taking friends for granted. But, when they get into a situation when they actually have no friend and have to start one, they realize that friendship is like a flower that needs to be watered and fertilized.
Article Source: http://www.bharatbhasha.net Article Url: http://www.bharatbhasha.net/self_improvement.php/65274 Article Added on Monday, September 10, 2007
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